
In 2016, I was a wife, new mom, and junior Biglaw associate with over $670,000 of debt and a negative $342,000 net worth.
By the end of 2021, my husband and I had paid off almost $500,000 of that debt (the total of our student loans) and now only have our mortgage remaining.
I’ve since left the law to focus on helping lawyers master their mindset and their personal finances and unlock the power that comes with having complete control of their money.
In this podcast, I’m giving you the knowledge you need to create more freedom in your life by improving your mindset and managing your money better.
Learn more about my work at www.rhothomas.com.
In 2016, I was a wife, new mom, and junior Biglaw associate with over $670,000 of debt and a negative $342,000 net worth.
By the end of 2021, my husband and I had paid off almost $500,000 of that debt (the total of our student loans) and now only have our mortgage remaining.
I’ve since left the law to focus on helping lawyers master their mindset and their personal finances and unlock the power that comes with having complete control of their money.
In this podcast, I’m giving you the knowledge you need to create more freedom in your life by improving your mindset and managing your money better.
Learn more about my work at www.rhothomas.com.
Episodes

4 days ago
306 | Windfalls and Wealth-Building
4 days ago
4 days ago
How do you handle tax refunds and bonuses? Many lawyers look forward to these infusions of cash each year. But what you do with them says a lot about your ability to build wealth. In this episode, let's talk about the common ways people handle windfalls and how each impacts your ability to build wealth. Head to rhothomas.com/306 for the full episode show notes. Apply for a strategy session at rhothomas.com/apply.

Friday Mar 27, 2026
305 | Rewind: When It Feels Like It's Not Working
Friday Mar 27, 2026
Friday Mar 27, 2026
What do you do when you've been trying to improve your finances but it feels like it's not working—it feels like you're not making progress with your finances? The answer depends on your situation. In this episode, we talk about 4 example situations in which someone may feel like they're not making progress on their finances and what to do in each. Head to https://www.rhothomas.com/305 for the full episode show notes. Apply for a strategy session at rhothomas.com/apply.

Friday Mar 20, 2026
304 | "If I Just Made More..."
Friday Mar 20, 2026
Friday Mar 20, 2026
One of the biggest lies lawyers tell themselves is that making more money would solve all their financial problems. However, many make more now than in the past but still struggle. Because the real issue is not the amount they make; it's poor money management. In this episode, let's talk about why good money management is more crucial than income level and how to start thinking differently about your money. Head to rhothomas.com/304 for the full episode show notes.

Friday Mar 13, 2026
303 | Justified and Broke
Friday Mar 13, 2026
Friday Mar 13, 2026
Too many attorneys are stressed, overextended, and broke despite high incomes. For many, rationalizing bad spending habits is the main culprit. In this episode, let's talk about four common justifications for bad spending decisions that keep lawyers stuck and a new way to think about money, so you can build financial security. Head to rhothomas.com/303 for the full episode show notes.

Friday Mar 06, 2026
302 | When Six Figures Is Not Enough
Friday Mar 06, 2026
Friday Mar 06, 2026
When you make good money but your finances still feel tight, the problem usually isn’t your income. It’s how you’re using your money. In this episode, let's talk about why many lawyers feel stuck, even when they make good money, and a simple roadmap that will make your six-figure income feel like more than enough. Head to rhothomas.com/302 for the full episode show notes.

Friday Feb 27, 2026
301 | Keeping Up Appearances
Friday Feb 27, 2026
Friday Feb 27, 2026
How many lawyers look like they have it all on the outside but are secretly living paycheck to paycheck and stressed about their finances? Unfortunately, it's probably a lot more than you think. In this episode, let's talk about the tendency of many lawyers to spend money to keep up appearances without thinking about the impact to their finances. Head to rhothomas.com/301 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Friday Feb 20, 2026
300 | Money Is Freedom
Friday Feb 20, 2026
Friday Feb 20, 2026
I left my multiple-six-figure job. My finances played a big part in my ability to do that. Money buys options. It creates freedom. In this 300th episode, we discuss why money is freedom, a concept that underlies all the work I do. Head to rhothomas.com/300 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Friday Feb 13, 2026
299 | Making More Is Not Better
Friday Feb 13, 2026
Friday Feb 13, 2026
Have you ever considered the downsides to making more that can lead to you being in a worse position? There's a pervasive, false belief that making more is inherently better, but that's not the case. In this episode, let's talk about why making more is not better and what really matters when it comes to your finances. Head to rhothomas.com/299 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Friday Feb 06, 2026
298 | Progress Over Perfection
Friday Feb 06, 2026
Friday Feb 06, 2026
Many lawyers struggle with their personal finances because they can't get over their perfectionism. They never make moves to get their finances in order because they don't know the perfect step to take and end up stuck in the same place. But rather than waiting for the perfect plan, it's much better to make progress toward the direction you want to go, even if it's imperfect. In this episode, let's talk about the importance of making progress with your finances and why taking action breeds clarity and confidence. Head to rhothomas.com/298 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Friday Jan 30, 2026
297 | You Get What You Believe
Friday Jan 30, 2026
Friday Jan 30, 2026
Learning about people making less than me who were better off financially was a critical turning point for my finances. Seeing the things they had achieved helped me to believe that my husband and I could do the same things. When you build your belief that your goals are possible, you take action and make progress toward achieving them. In this episode, let's talk about how your belief impacts your action and ultimate outcomes and how to build your belief to achieve your financial goals. Head to rhothomas.com/297 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.
