

In 2016, I was a wife, new mom, and junior Biglaw associate with over $670,000 of debt and a negative $342,000 net worth.
By the end of 2021, my husband and I had paid off almost $500,000 of that debt (the total of our student loans) and now only have our mortgage remaining.
I’ve since left the law to focus on helping lawyers master their mindset and their personal finances and unlock the power that comes with having complete control of their money.
In this podcast, I’m giving you the knowledge you need to create more freedom in your life by improving your mindset and managing your money better.
Learn more about my work at www.rhothomas.com.
Episodes

Dec 12, 2025
Dec 12, 2025
9 min
If you've ever encountered difficulties or become frustrated during your personal finance journey, you're not alone. It's a common experience. But I want to offer some encouragement to you. In this episode, let's talk about what makes managing your personal finances well feel difficult and why you're the perfect person to take on the challenge. Head to rhothomas.com/290 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Dec 5, 2025
Dec 5, 2025
10 min
There seems to be a collective view in society that not spending money is somehow better than spending money, but I believe there's a balance. Underspending is just as harmful as overspending. In this episode, let's talk about the balance between underspending and overspending and the importance of making room to spend on things you enjoy. Head to rhothomas.com/289 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Nov 28, 2025
Nov 28, 2025
11 min
Often, we look at where we are in life and think about all the things in the past that we wish we had done differently or that we regret. But we rarely take the time to look at all the things we’ve done that have gone right and all the good things our previous actions—mistakes and all—have led to. In this episode, let’s talk about being grateful for the previous versions of you and making decisions in the present that future versions of you will thank you for. Head to rhothomas.com/288 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Nov 21, 2025
Nov 21, 2025
11 min
What if you could pay off all of your credit card debt in the next year? How would that change the choices you make today? The thing is: short-term spending decisions can make or break that goal. One of my clients experienced this firsthand. In this episode, let's talk about why prioritizing the present over your future goals leads to regret and the importance of keeping your ultimate goals at the forefront. Head to rhothomas.com/287 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Nov 14, 2025
Nov 14, 2025
11 min
I ate a whole bag of Almond Joy snack size candy bars by myself. I have a huge sweet tooth, and when I have chocolate in the house, I'm eating it. Many lawyers find themselves in similar situations with respect to their personal finances and the things they like to spend money on. The best solution for my sweet tooth and for my clients' wallets is to remove the temptation. In this episode, let's talk about tips to remove the temptation to spend and keep more money in your pocket. Head to rhothomas.com/286 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Nov 7, 2025
Nov 7, 2025
16 min
It took us 3.5 years to go from negative $342k to positive $100k in net worth. They say the first $100k is the hardest, but we made it through a combination of paying down debt, investing, and a little luck. In this episode, let's talk about our journey from negative $342k to positive $100k, including our actual numbers year by year. Head to rhothomas.com/285 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Oct 31, 2025
Oct 31, 2025
16 min
If you're a lawyer making six figures but living paycheck to paycheck, you're not alone. It also doesn't have to be this way. In my time working with lawyers on their finances over the years, I've noticed 4 budget categories that contribute to paycheck-to-paycheck living most often. In this rewind episode, let's talk about the 4 biggest culprits and how to fix them. Head to rhothomas.com/284 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Oct 24, 2025
Oct 24, 2025
9 min
I have a confession: I have some credit card debt. Those of you who have been around for some time may not be surprised by this because I've been using debt strategically for years. Due to some circumstances in my business this year, I haven't paid this particular debt off as quickly as I'd like. In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the credit card debt I have and the plan to pay it off. Head to rhothomas.com/283 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Oct 17, 2025
Oct 17, 2025
11 min
Want to get out of debt faster? Here's the key: You need to focus. One of my clients recently cited this as the top thing she took away from working with me, and attendees of one of my recent presentations were mind-blown about the concept. In this episode, let's talk about how focusing your efforts with your finances leads to faster progress. Head to rhothomas.com/282 for the full episode show notes. Need help with getting out of debt and building your net worth? Schedule a consultation at rhothomas.com/call.

Oct 10, 2025
Oct 10, 2025
8 min
Many lawyers find themselves with no money left at the end of the month for their goals. It's all too common, but it doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, let's talk about the best way to prioritize your finances so you can achieve your goals. Head to rhothomas.com/281 for the full episode show notes.